Category Archives: Making Space

Happily Intending


Granny Squares
Originally uploaded by scrappythebandit.

I’ve decided to combine my Friday Happy with my Weekend Intentions posts this week.

Last month, the new Next Chapter Book Club started, and this time it’s a Mail Around, where 4 copies of the Happy Book are mailed around and the participants each get an opportunity to add our happiness to the book! I’m excited to be part of the Glee Circle (Glee?! Can you believe it?!) but it will be many many weeks before I see the book. In the meantime each Friday Jamie will be asking us what makes us happy, and anyone can participate!

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I have a few happies this week. You can never have too many happies!

The Internet

It may seem silly, and some may think that the Internet breeds people who don’t know how to “play well with others” but I think, for me, the opposite is true. I get to know people on a deeper level than I might if I met them in real life first — I do have a shyness that is infamous. And a nervous laugh to boot. I just want to celebrate the joys of the internet:

  • Don’t know how to cook and egg, slice an onion or want to find out what an “open-container” law in your state REALLY means? Confused on what is happening on Lost, or maybe you’re wondering if citric acid contains gluten? Google is my very best friend! And so is delicious where I save all my bookmarks on weird things with crazy tags that I may only understand, so I can find them again when the need arises. Information is power, which makes us very powerful (and dangerous!) indeed!
  • Real-world opinions, not just corporate-produced porpaganda. It’s like word-of-mouth, but on a stadium-sized scale. Before you spent your money on that car or this power juicer, find out what others think about it. Again, information is power and might just protect your wallet!
  • People! I know I mentioned this before, but the world is full of cool people, artsy people, spiritual people, people who tell you just what to do when you spill olive oil on your jeans (thanks @AmySeyBrown!), and others going through similar health challenges — which is especially reassuring when the medical establishment is thumbing its nose at you and your pain. New friends might even make plans to meet you when heading off on their own personal Magical Eyes Tour.. and even send you presents! :)
  • And, come on.. the best part of the Internet is YOU!

Free Books at the Public Library

Our local library is part of a consortium that allows us access to books from about a dozen libraries via Interlibrary Loan. That means if any one library doesn’t have the book I want to read, I have a whole lot more options! Since the “economic downturn”, the library’s circulation numbers have increased greatly, which hopefully means they’ll be allowed a larger budget on the next go-round.. another good reason to support my local library and take out as many books as I can carry! Currently I’m reading:

bookshelf

Gluten-Free Girl, Crazy Sexy Cancer Tips, The End of Overeating, Awakening the Spine, The G Free Diet, and, not pictured: Practical Magic and The Botany of Desire.

Keeping My Hands Busy

Inspired by Jamie’s post, and after inspecting the granny-square afghan my Memere made me when I was small, I decided it was about time I made myself an afghan in the colors that I love. I remembered that in second grade I had learned to crochet chains and brought my yarn and hooks to school with me every day in a little cigar box so I could crochet chains during recess. I never got past the chains back then, but why not? So I scraped together my craft store coupons, got some hooks and yarn that I loved, and I’m off and running! Too fun! I will be sure to post a photo of the blanket when it’s finished, so exciting!

Oh, and.. I GOT MY DEPOSIT INTO SQUAM AND I’M TAKING THE SONGWRITING CLASS WITH JONATHA BROOKE THAT I REALLY WANTED! Sorry, I had to capitalize that! Plus, two really great classes with Jen Lee, some free time and a bed in a cabin on Squam Lake! Heaven, I’m in HEAVEN!

So that’s my Happy!

Intentions for the Weekend

This weekend’s soul-nurturing creative and space-making stuff:

  • The aforementioned granny squares. Not a specific goal here, still need to figure out how long these take me in general.
  • I’ve been groaning at the mess in my space — the dirt and dust in corners, the rugs and floors and junk.. but I realized I get overwhelmed at the thought of doing even one of the chores, such as cleaning the kitchen floor. So I am breaking it down into teeny tiny sections. I’ve got a small area by my back door near my computer/tv station in the living room. It happens to fall in my feng shui wealth/prosperity sector, so it’s a great starting point and in dire need of a clean up. Because it’s a small area, I feel I can give it a deep clean without getting overwhelmed, and it’ll give me a sense of accomplishment. I’ll wash the single window and dust the corners and get control of the computer wires once and for all. I’ll even hang the purple suncatcher @meganmonique gave me since purple is a power color for that sector. Maybe I’ll even tackle a second teeny tiny corner (my front entance would be good) if I want, but no pressure.
  • A painting came to me in a dream, and I want to get it together for Willowing’s Art of Self-Acceptance book. I bought the canvas, a daunting 24×30, this week at Michael’s. So this weekend I’m going to prep the canvas and get started on the outline of what it’s going to be. If I have time I’ll gesso black over another canvas I have that I want to recycle.
  • Staying committed to being gluten-free, no matter how annoying it may be. That’s why having other things to focus on besides food is SO important.

What are you planning for your soulfully-creative weekend?

This Weekend’s Intentions

Flickr Favorites January 2010

Photo Credits for my Flickr Favorites Mosaic: 1. Project #2: A Mash-Up, 2. Style School Project 5, 3. project1a, 4. Style School Photo Wall Art, 5. mannequin back, 6. The Winter Solstice at Midnight in a Perfect World, 7. Mi corazon, 8. It’s Oh So Quiet., 9. “Nowhere you can be that isn’t where you’re meant to be.” / Day 318 Year 2, 10. Nostalgia, 11. Nostalgia (2), 12. Halverson_0193

I thought I’d start the weekend with some inspirational eye candy, both from my favorite Flickr photographers and from my fellow classmates in Style School. I’ve been too busy to really dive in and so, I haven’t done any of the projects yet. But I’ve got some ideas up my sleeve and a 50% off coupon for JoAnn’s. :)

On this weekend’s creative, soul nurturing agenda:

  • Brainstorming for my contribution to Willowing’s Art of Self Acceptance.
  • Designing a 2010 calendar for my Etsy shop.
  • Stretching these muscles, massaging these toes, and moving my body as part of my 30 Day Sadhana.
  • Curling up with my 1072 page book — Stephen King’s latest, Under the Dome.
  • A little bit of soul-spa.. as in, letting myself do the things that make me feel more beautiful, I’ll figure it out along the way..
  • Straightening up, starting with the files on my computer and balancing my checkbook. Because that where’s my inner peace begins.

Have a blessed weekend, everyone!

Weekend Intentions

Day 92/365: yoga mudra
Originally uploaded by talulayu.

Another weekend is here. Another chance to drop out of need-to-dos and should-dos, and drop in to want-to-dos and desires. (I’m actually working from home today, so there’s a little leftover shoulds, but it’s an on-call thing, pretty simple most of the time).

On the creative, soul nurturing agenda:

  • I’ve joined Marianne in a 30 Day Sadhana — yoga 30 days in a row with a specific intention for the practice. My intention is one word: Nourishment. Since I cannot do anything strenuous for health reasons, I’m choosing gentle styles of yoga. Last night I did a beginner-level Ashtanga Vinyasa routine from Yoga Today. I did it in the evening, as it’s quite relaxing, and I felt as though my whole body had been massaged when it was over. Yummy. This month I’ll learn why everyone I know does yoga!
  • Spending more time with my 2010: Creating My Goddess Year workbook. The workbook PDF is in full color, but I only had access to a non-color printer, so I’m taking the pages and coloring them my own way, with watercolor crayons and colored pencils. Have you gotten yours yet? What are you waiting for? Leonie just released 5 BONUS pages today for the workbook!
  • Vision Cards for 2010! I’ve been wanting to work on this project, but had to settle into the year a little, and my vision for it, before I knew what areas to focus on and what cards I wanted to make. I’m pretty clear on things now, so I’ll be gathering up my materials and working on it this weekend. Thanks to Jamie Ridler for the awesome idea!
  • Drumming. Spending a little time getting to know my new awesome djembe!
  • Avatar, if I am feeling up to it. I’m curious about the environmental message, as well as the spiritual message of everyone being connected (how true this needs to be, given what is happening in Haiti..) since I never would have considered James Cameron a spiritual guy. But hearing him tell Oprah he thinks about trees differently now, well.. you know how much I love trees.
  • Lastly, I’ll be working on adding some new items to my Etsy shop, and setting up an Etsy Haiti fundraiser through it. If you want to find out when this is ready, watch this space and/or follow me on Twitter.

If I Only Had the Space..


wide open spaces
Originally uploaded by manyfires.

If 2010 is about Making Space, it’s about making space all over the place. In my heart, my body, my living room, my pantry, in my world.

Most notably the place I’ve noticed a lack of space lately is in my brain. A direct correlation indeed to my suddenly overflowing Google Reader, which I wiped out and started over with a few months ago. Although I regularly cull blogs that no longer interest me (EVERY day; when one pops up that bores me, I scan the blog to see how many previous entries I marked with a star. If it’s none or few, it goes), I have also been adding ones regularly.

So I think in addition to being very judicious about what I read in Google Reader (let’s choose platinum over tin foil here and let my bloggy world revolve around my mainstays Owning Pink, Crazy Sexy Life, Goddess Guidebook, and Our Lady of the Red Thread with a smattering of heartfelt personal blogging such as Boho Photo, Dandelion Seeds and Dreams, and Suzie the Foodie), I’m going to start taking Blog Free Days, maybe even a Blog Free Week here and there. I used to think Julia Cameron was crazy when she suggested a week of Reading Deprivation during the Artist’s Way, but now it makes all kinds of sense. To protect the authenticity (there’s that word again!) of our OUTPUT, we must be careful of our INPUT. And we live in a world of constant virtual input. It’s enough to make a person absolutely mad!

Speaking of Input, what the hell is happening to my Inbox? In supporting every friend with a newsletter and signing up for every author’s mailing list in all the years I’ve been online and revolving around my fickle and rotating cycle of interests, well.. let’s just say that’s a lot of email. It was getting pretty disheartening to open my mailbox and find not one single shred of personal, direct to me, “Hello, how are you? I care” emails but instead gobs of things I just couldn’t see trying to read all the time.  So I am now funneling all my non-personal email through my gmail filters, where all the Goddess stuff is slapped with a Goddess label, and all the Creativity Building stuff gets its own, and anything that I can’t categorize with my 5 main values, gets unsubscribed to, stat. I can read the categories I want to when I want to, and if I miss some time-sensitive thing, well.. I’m okay with that. We all deserve a clean Inbox and a peaceful mind.

Goddess Leonie had the right idea when she started observing Switch Off Sunday, which I only ever observed for real this past week and it was very enlightening. I had plenty to do offline but I kept gravitating back to my MacBook. I left it completely turned off most of the day so it wouldn’t be so easy to flip open and start surfing. There’s so much life offline to be lived, why is it such a draw to surf? Perhaps it would be easier to observe if it were another season, where I can spend more time outdoors like I did last summer, spending a couple hours reading in the park under a tree. This spring and summer I hope my body will be better equipped to taking little hiking trips so I can actually enjoy the local mountains.

Probably the bottom line for me in learning to Make Space is to be gentle with myself. I won’t figure it all out overnight, and I won’t be able to purge a dumpster-load of stuff (mentally or physically) in one day. So I am making space for my discomfort and fear of change around making space.

Care to join us?